SAFETY PLANNING

Making a Safety Plan

Leaving is often the scariest and most dangerous time of an abusive relationship. It is important to develop a safety plan. Safety planning focuses on the immediate needs of the victim(s) and addresses the level or risk for danger.

 

Developing a Safety Plan Should Include:

  • Safety strategies and risk assessment during a violent incident

  • Safety strategies to consider when leaving

  • Safety strategies for daily living in a violent home

  • Safety strategies on the job and in public

  • Safety strategies for your mental health

  • Safety strategies if drugs or alcohol consumption is present

  • Safety strategies for the children

 

General Safety Plan Tips

  • Identify a variety of ways to get out of your home safely and practice your escape methods.

  • Pack a bag with medications, important documents, money, and keys and hide it.

  • Arrange a signal with neighbors to let them know when you need help.

  • Devise a code word to use with your children, grandchildren, friends, or others to indicate that you need the police.

  • Learn how to shut off GPS tracking devices in cell phones and vehicles.

  • Plan where you will go if you have to leave.

  • During an explosive incident, try to stay in a room with access to an exit (except the kitchen).

  • Try to stay in a room with a phone to call 911.

  • Inform law enforcement if weapons are in the home.


WomenSafe advocates are available to help you form safety planning strategies. A printable worksheet is also available.  

To develop a personalized safety plan, call our 24-hour COPEline at 1-888-285-5665.

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Items to Take With You

When you decide to leave an abusive partner, it is important to take certain items. These items might best be placed in a “Go Bag” so that if you leave in a hurry, you can grab them quickly. It may be best to keep these items at a trusted friend or neighbor’s house to keep it safe and accessible.

Remember, gathering as many of these items as you can is better then none at all.

Identification

Your birth certificate

Children’s birth certificates

Social Security Cards

School & vaccination records

Money

Checkbook, ATM card

Credit Cards

Keys-house/car/office

Driver’s license and registration

Medications

Welfare identification

Work permits

Green Card

Passport(s)

Divorce Papers

Medical records – for all family members

Lease/rental agreement, house deed, mortgage payment book

Bank books

Insurance papers

Clothes

Address book

Pictures

Jewelry

Children’s favorite toys and/or blankets

Items of special sentimental value